Marriage Policy

In the Roman Catholic Church tradition, we recognize marriage as a sacrament, that is, a practice identified by Jesus which enriches the Church community. Thus, this sacrament means more than a wedding rite; it designates the lifelong relationship of husband and wife. Marriage is not so much something that a couple receives as something a couple becomes. When two people marry, it becomes an important moment for the Church community and the Church has a responsibility to guide couples in preparation for life together.

Contact the parish 6 months or more before the proposed wedding date. Couples are expected to contact the pastor at least six months in advance of the date on which they hope to celebrate their wedding. Only the pastor or parish secretary may book the date. Dates will be booked only after the pastor has had sufficient opportunity to meet with the engaged couple, to take care of necessary paperwork and to arrange for their participation in a marriage preparation program. It is the responsibility of the engaged couple to secure the date with the church before making commitments with caterers, reception halls, etc.

Advance preparation is required of every couple wishing to be married in the Catholic Church. This includes meeting with your priest or deacon, attending sacramental preparation classes, attending NFP classes, meeting with a sponsor couple to discuss the FOCCUS inventory, and planning the wedding liturgy.

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